自罪
actual sin (Christian notion, as opposed to original sin 原罪); conscious sin
刀子嘴巴,豆腐心
lit. knife mouth but heart of bean curd; sharp tongue concealing a caring heart
刀子嘴,豆腐心
to have a sharp tongue but a soft heart (idiom)
酒不醉人人自醉,色不迷人人自迷
wine doesn't make men drunk: men get themselves intoxicated. Lust does not overpower men: men surrender themselves to lust